Iâve been married to my husband for two years. Five months into our relationship (before we got married), he confessed that he was an adult baby. I was so grossed out, I was literally ill. (Why would this great guy want to be like this?) I told him he would have to choose: diapers or me. He chose me. I believed him and married him. Shortly before the birth of our child, I found out that heâd been looking at diaper porn online. I lost it. He apologized and said heâd never look at diaper porn again. Once I was free to have sex again after the birth, it was like he wasnât into it. When I asked what the deal was, he told me he wasnât into sex because diapers werenât involved. I broke down, and he agreed to talk to a counselor. But on the day we were...
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Iâve been married to my husband for two years. Five months into our relationship (before we got married), he confessed that he was an adult baby. I was so grossed out, I was literally ill. (Why would this great guy want to be like this?) I told him he would have to choose: diapers or me. He chose me. I believed him and married him. Shortly before the birth of our child, I found out that heâd been looking at diaper porn online. I lost it. He apologized and said heâd never look at diaper porn again. Once I was free to have sex again after the birth, it was like he wasnât into it. When I asked what the deal was, he told me he wasnât into sex because diapers werenât involved. I broke down, and he agreed to talk to a counselor. But on the day we were supposed to go, he was mad about every little thing I did and then said he wasnât going! I went crazy and called his mom and told her everything, and she said she found a diaper under his bed when he was 7! After this crisis, he agreed to work things out, but then I found adult-size diapers in the houseâand not for the first time! I took a picture and sent it to him, and he told me that he was tired of me controlling him and he is going to do this when he wants. He also said he was mad at me for telling his mom. I told him no, absolutely not, he cannot do this. Then I found adult-size diapers in the house again this morning and freaked out. He says he never wants to discuss diapers with me again, and Iâm afraid he might choose them over me! Please give me advice on how to make him understand that this is not him! This is who he chooses to be! And he doesnât have to be this way!
Married A Disgusting Diaper Lover
First, MADDL, letâs calmly discuss this with a shrink...
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